I'm so very glad you're there safely, Red. How lovely her family sounds. I can't get over the writing on the coffin! What a beautiful idea Kei had. That's something I might just steal from her. Let us know how things go as you have time, and please pass on our heartfelt sympathy to her family. I'll be making a donation to the cancer society, both in her name and my husband's.
*hugs*